It’s Monday Again: TGIF (Thank Goodness I’m FIRE)

Money has a way of complicating our thinking.

A while back, I had a boss who was really into brewing beer at home. Not casually—he approached it like a scientist. Precise. Methodical. He even went through a certification process to become, essentially, a master brewer.

At the time, his wife—who was a museum curator—got an offer in another state that they couldn’t pass up. So he did something most people only talk about.

He walked away from his corporate career and went to work at a brewery.

I remember talking with him after the move. What stood out wasn’t the job change—it was the identity shift. Going from a corporate executive to someone clocking in for an hourly shift. That’s not just a career change. That’s a different way of seeing yourself.

The rest of us? We were envious.

He had done the thing. Stepped off the treadmill. Chosen something he clearly cared about.

And then… a few years later, he came back.

Back to corporate. Back to the higher income. Back to the structure.

At the time, I didn’t fully understand it.

Now, I think I do.

Part of the FIRE journey is understanding your relationship with time and money. And more importantly, how deeply wired that relationship is.

We’re conditioned to believe that time equals money. So if you’re not maximizing your earning potential… what are you doing?

That question has some weight to it.

Even now, I feel it.

Just last week, I was approached about a role that pays a lot of money.

And for a moment, you think about it.

But then… TGIF.

Thank goodness I’m FIRE.

Because one of the best parts of this lifestyle is something simple—waking up on a Monday and realizing you don’t have to do anything.

You can sleep in. Or not.

You can start working on something you care about. Or take a walk. Or just sit with a cup of coffee and let the day unfold a bit.

There’s a peaceful, easy feeling in that kind of freedom that’s hard to quantify—and even harder to replace.

But here’s the strange part:

It becomes normal.

You start to forget what it felt like before. Which is why I think it’s important to pause every now and then and really notice it.

This is it.

Time freedom.

It honestly reminds me of summer break as a kid. Wide open days. No urgency. Just… possibility.

And yet, even here, those old patterns can creep back in.

The urge to be productive. To stay busy. To justify your time.

To turn everything back into a transaction.

That’s a game I’m paying attention to right now.

I’ll dig into that more tomorrow.

But for today, I’ll leave you with this:

If you woke up FIRE (or even fat FIRE) today… what would you do?

And maybe more importantly…

What would you choose not to do?

And is there any part of that… you could start doing now?

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